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The secrets, insights, philosophy and stories of a Lifestyle Mistress.

How can intimacy with a complete stranger be meaningful? How can the experience of pain send two people into ecstasy, bonding them for life? How can cheating be necessary when it is one of the biggest betrayals of a marriage? And how can porn, self-gratification and random hookups be essential in creating a thrilling, dynamic and fulfilling sexlife?

These are just some of the topics I want to cover in future episodes. Stay tuned for more, and reach out to me if you have a question about your sexuality and sex life that no one will dare answer. 💋

Beta Season

*Trigger Warning
This series is a kind look at mistressing, so please note:
Infidelity is a serious matter that can harm victims. If you are traumatised by infidelity, I do not advise you to listen to this podcast. The focus of this podcast series is the motivations, relations and acts of infidelity between lovers, and does not address the ethics, morality or consequences of such on others. Passages are often said light-heartedly, crassly, matter-of-factly or with sarcasm, which in no way is intended to devalue the experience or pain of victims. If you are a victim of infidelity and need someone to talk to, please contact Infidelity Survivors Anonymous. They are a world-wide support group helping people who are traumatised by sexual betrayal. https://www.isurvivors.org/

Beta Season

S01E01 – What Will Be

How can intimacy with a complete stranger be meaningful?

How can the experience of pain send two people into ecstasy, bonding them for life?

How can cheating be necessary when it is one of the biggest betrayals of a marriage?

And how can porn, self-gratification and random hookups be essential in creating a thrilling, dynamic and fulfilling sex-life?

These are just some of the topics I want to cover in future episodes. For this once, an introduction to the possibilities.

S01E02 – I Choose To Be The Mistress

Why would someone choose to be a Mistress instead of being the Good Wife? The answer is a lot more complicated than you think.

In this beta episode, I begin the conversation with a basic introduction of my mistressing, though it is also a vital part in understanding the complexity of the human heart, and how one can choose to live a controversial life.

S01E03 – The Other Kind of Mistressing

“Mistressing” is an old poetic word that describes the practice of being a Mistress. We don’t generally use the word today because the idea of a legitimate Mistress has died out, especially since love-matches have become the norm for marriage. But, Mistresses still exist and so does mistressing, we just don’t like to talk about it.

However, there is one realm where the Mistress is still celebrated – in the Kink world. Of course, there are those who follow vanilla standards of monogamy and faithfulness in the Kink world, but there are also those who do not pay attention to such.

Thus, there is both vanilla affairs and kink affairs – they can be quite different from each other in approach and intensions, but are also the same as they fall under the one umbrella of infidelity.

This episode introduces the basics of BDSM and my philosophy to orientate you to specific concepts and My Femdom. It also provides basic insight into the complexities of affairs in the Kink world, and how they differ and are similar to affairs in the Vanilla world.

S01E04 – Sex With Strangers

How can sex with strangers be meaningful?

We are told that the most rewarding sex and intimacy is with people we have created a deep and long-lasting relationship with… That only sex with those you love can be meaningful. Could this be wrong?

Discover how a mistress has turned singular sexual encounters with strangers into valuable and important experiences in her life.

Philosophy, mindset and the value of strangers…

Some of the points I discuss include:

– immaculate orgasm
– how our goals shape our perceptions and intolerance
– challenging yourself to heal from past trauma
– how you are in control of your experiences and life by how you think