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I’ve been a Mistress for a while now, in every sense of the word. A fornicator, an adulteress, a cuckoldress, a swinger, a Dominatrix and a Lifestyle Domme. Most would think that I have never been the good wife, and they would be wrong. Being the good wife did have some perks, but it was not the most fulfilling for me, and certainly not the most fun.

So, what made me choose the path most feared…? Ever since I was little, I saw the good wife and I saw the Mistress, I saw what each got and what each didn’t, and my heart was directed to who I wanted to become. I desired to be the Other Woman.

I have had many liaisons and affairs over the years with people from all over the world. I have casual hookups, one-day love affairs, flings, secret lovers, and lifelong attachments. Each person that I have been with has added to the tapestry of my life, and has helped me to fulfil my life goal to fall in love and be in love with as many people in my lifetime as humanly possible.

Driven by values and a mission

I bet you didn’t even…

Yes, a Mistress most certainly has values, morals and standards – a code she lives by. She is high value, has feminine energy, and is all the things the world makes a woman strive for if they want to be validated. However…

The Mistress has always been demonised throughout history. She is seen as someone to fear, someone to despise, and someone to feel sorry for. She is thought to be of little value, a sinner, a whore, a home-wrecker, and a femme fatale. A black heart with an evil plan, leaving a trail of destruction in her wake.

But were do Mistresses come from? They don’t just magically appear out of thin air. They don’t hide in the deep and only strike when they need to feed. They are among us. They are our wives, our mothers, our sisters, and our daughters. They are women.

Essentially, I believe a true Mistress is a woman who chooses feminine power and authority, values her desires, and lives a sex positive lifestyle. It is important to stress that I support women who choose to be a Mistress. Self consent is crucial.

However, not every woman is cut out to be a Mistress. Many do it unwillingly because they see no other way or it’s a better-than-nothing option, and some become Mistresses by accident. These are not the Mistresses I encourage in the lifestyle. They are choosing wrong for themselves, making their life complicated and themselves miserable. They are the opposite – the good wife in disguise – to the women who choose mistressing for empowerment and fulfilment and who are happier and healthier being a Mistress.

I know this site will be hard to swallow for many. I’m expecting a lot of hatred from strangers. So, why am I doing this?

We have lived so long in a man’s world, so long with outdated social constructs and religious ideals designed to put fear in us through wilful ignorance and which dictates what love, relationships and a good life “should” be. It’s now time for those who choose to live the other way, for the sake of acknowledgement, exploration, knowledge, fulfilment and the evolution of humanity, to come forth and thrive.

I hope to dispel the myths and fear on such a taboo, yet everyday, topic – for I dare say that most women have either found themselves as a Mistress or on the other side of one. I hope that not only will Mistresses be accepted, but finally openly valued, (because truth be told, while the world rages against us, behind closed doors the Mistress is appreciated, valued and indispensable, even to the good wife.)