In Absolute Femdom, the Domina is not a service provider. She is not offering a menu of experiences for the submissive to purchase with consent. She is not there to perform dominance as a commodity. And so, negotiation must be… Read More »Keeping the Absolute Domina’s Authority in Negotiation
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. đ One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom
The distinction between Relative and Absolute Femdom is not simply one of intensity or experience. It is philosophical. It reflects two divergent understandings of what negotiation is for. In Relative dynamics, negotiation is a tool of co-authorship. It is the… Read More »A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation
In popular discourseâparticularly in the realms of dating advice, self-help psychology, and social media coachingâwomen are routinely told to âget in their feminineâ or âdrop out of their masculine.â These phrases may sound empowering, but they are contrived. They are… Read More »The Dominant Feminine vs. Pop-Culture Polarity: “feminine energy”
In Absolute Femdom, the act of negotiation is not an invitation for the submissive to barter the Dominaâs power. It is the preliminary phase in which She determines whether the submissive is ready to enter Her structured Femdom, not to… Read More »Submissives Negotiating with an Absolute Femdom
Within the discourse of Female Domination, negotiation is often assumed to be the ethical backbone that secures safety, transparency, and mutual understanding. And in many contexts, it is. But what is rarely examinedâparticularly within the Relative Femdom structureâis how certain… Read More »How Negotiation in Relative Femdom Limits the Dominaâs Power: A Study in Denial, Disclosure, and Dynamic Integrity
Why Vanilla Negotiation Doesnât Translate Well to Femdom Power Structures In the vanilla world, negotiation is a mutual dialogue intended to create balance for all parties involved. It is typically a process of collaborative compromise, where the parties bring their preferences,… Read More »Negotiation Doesnât Mean What You Think It Means
In a previous post, I shared my thoughts on what Female Domination is, based my personal experience, observations of other Domina, and academic study on Femdom literature. In essence, Femdom is a female-led, asymmetrical, power-based dynamic. The key defining element… Read More »Femdoms Deprogramming from Male-Centric Domination
One of the most persistent misunderstandings within D/sâparticularly within Femdomâis the question of whether a Domina can truly dominate if the submissive gives consent. At surface level, this question appears logical. If a person consents to domination, chooses their limits,… Read More »Does Consent Mean You Are Dominating or Just Roleplaying?
Dedicating my life to Femdom, I have studied domination in its most specific contextâwithin D/s dynamicsâand even more precisely, within female-led power structures. My passion for Femdom has driven me to examine it not just as a kink or identity,… Read More »Why Most Femdom Isnât Actually Femdom