There are a lot of things men have projected onto Femdom—sissification being one of them. To be clear: sissification is not the same as feminisation. They are often confused, but fundamentally different. Feminisation is about crossdressing or presenting as a… Read More »Sissification Is Not What You Think It Is
One of the more confronting aspects of my academic work is that I’m often developing ideas that have little to no precedent in public discourse. In my field, there are virtually no published studies or frameworks that cover what I’m… Read More »Crazy, Evil, or a Whore – Ladies, Pick Your Brand
Sensory Truths, Erotic Intelligence, and the Limits of Performance Truth is expressed through the body, and in Femdom it’s no different. There are things the body knows before the mind catches up. The tightening in the gut when someone takes… Read More »Femdom Embodiement
Power, Intimacy, and the Femdomsexual Heart If you’ve ever tried to explain to someone that your deepest experience of intimacy involves female-led hierarchy, control, or desire you’ll know the confusion it often provokes. The reality is, love, desire, and power… Read More »A Different Kind of Love
Why the Real Thing Feels Different There comes a point in most people’s exploration where they begin to notice the split between what they’ve fantasised about and what they actually want. The uncomfortable question is: how much of what you… Read More »Femdom vs. Fantasy
Learning to Recognise What We’ve Always Felt When we talk about Female Power, most people assume we mean dominance. Control. Force. But for those of us drawn to Femdom — either as Dominant women or those who respond to them… Read More »The Orientation to Female Power
Reflections on Power, Identity, and Desire There’s something many people feel long before they have words for it. Their connection to Femdom runs deeper than a kink, deeper than a role, and certainly deeper than a scene. For some, it’s… Read More »Are You Femdomsexual?
Your surrender begins with deep self-knowledge Welcome to the Place Where You Discover What Your Submission IsBefore we talk about tasks, rituals, roles, and protocols, we must begin with the truth beneath them all—your desire to submit. Desiring to submit… Read More »Obey Yourself First – [How to Find Your Dream Domina]
Let me be clear: BDSM is not sex. It may involve sex, it may inspire sex, it may transform sex, but it is not defined by it. This is a crucial distinction, and one that most men entering the Femdom… Read More »BDSM Isn’t Sex—Femdom is a Power Structure, Not a Sexual Service
Let’s talk about the first message. That tiny cluster of words that, in your mind, might just be the beginning of something life-changing. Or in a Femdom’s mind… it’s yet another faceless ping in an endless sea of copy-paste desperation.… Read More »Why Performing Submission Before Consent Will Kill Your Chances