Femdom is a craft. This category is for refining your tools, techniques, and presence as a Domme, whether you lead with sadism, sensuality, structure, or psychological play. It’s about evolution, not ego. Education by RacyWilde💋
In Absolute Femdom, the Domina is not a service provider. She is not offering a menu of experiences for the submissive to purchase with consent. She is not there to perform dominance as a commodity. And so, negotiation must be… Read More »Keeping the Absolute Domina’s Authority in Negotiation
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. 💋 One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom
The distinction between Relative and Absolute Femdom is not simply one of intensity or experience. It is philosophical. It reflects two divergent understandings of what negotiation is for. In Relative dynamics, negotiation is a tool of co-authorship. It is the… Read More »A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation
In popular discourse—particularly in the realms of dating advice, self-help psychology, and social media coaching—women are routinely told to “get in their feminine” or “drop out of their masculine.” These phrases may sound empowering, but they are contrived. They are… Read More »The Dominant Feminine vs. Pop-Culture Polarity: “feminine energy”
Within the discourse of Female Domination, negotiation is often assumed to be the ethical backbone that secures safety, transparency, and mutual understanding. And in many contexts, it is. But what is rarely examined—particularly within the Relative Femdom structure—is how certain… Read More »How Negotiation in Relative Femdom Limits the Domina’s Power: A Study in Denial, Disclosure, and Dynamic Integrity
Why Vanilla Negotiation Doesn’t Translate Well to Femdom Power Structures In the vanilla world, negotiation is a mutual dialogue intended to create balance for all parties involved. It is typically a process of collaborative compromise, where the parties bring their preferences,… Read More »Negotiation Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means
In a previous post, I shared my thoughts on what Female Domination is, based my personal experience, observations of other Domina, and academic study on Femdom literature. In essence, Femdom is a female-led, asymmetrical, power-based dynamic. The key defining element… Read More »Femdoms Deprogramming from Male-Centric Domination
One of the most persistent misunderstandings within D/s—particularly within Femdom—is the question of whether a Domina can truly dominate if the submissive gives consent. At surface level, this question appears logical. If a person consents to domination, chooses their limits,… Read More »Does Consent Mean You Are Dominating or Just Roleplaying?
There are a lot of things men have projected onto Femdom—sissification being one of them. To be clear: sissification is not the same as feminisation. They are often confused, but fundamentally different. Feminisation is about crossdressing or presenting as a… Read More »Sissification Is Not What You Think It Is