Everything you need to know to be Your kind of Mistress. This category guides you through authority, mindset, style, and structure. Drawn from real-life practice and feminist philosophy. Start with the basics or use as a refresher to sharpen your Femdom. Education by RacyWilde💋
One of the more confronting aspects of my academic work is that I’m often developing ideas that have little to no precedent in public discourse. In my field, there are virtually no published studies or frameworks that cover what I’m… Read More »Crazy, Evil, or a Whore – Ladies, Pick Your Brand
Sensory Truths, Erotic Intelligence, and the Limits of Performance Truth is expressed through the body, and in Femdom it’s no different. There are things the body knows before the mind catches up. The tightening in the gut when someone takes… Read More »Femdom Embodiement
Power, Intimacy, and the Femdomsexual Heart If you’ve ever tried to explain to someone that your deepest experience of intimacy involves female-led hierarchy, control, or desire you’ll know the confusion it often provokes. The reality is, love, desire, and power… Read More »A Different Kind of Love
Reflections on Power, Identity, and Desire There’s something many people feel long before they have words for it. Their connection to Femdom runs deeper than a kink, deeper than a role, and certainly deeper than a scene. For some, it’s… Read More »Are You Femdomsexual?
Let me be clear: BDSM is not sex. It may involve sex, it may inspire sex, it may transform sex, but it is not defined by it. This is a crucial distinction, and one that most men entering the Femdom… Read More »BDSM Isn’t Sex—Femdom is a Power Structure, Not a Sexual Service
So, I study Femdom… academically. For the Arts, not Sciences (so don’t worry, I don’t data people.) I look at narratives and identify patterns, trace lineages and track deviations to identify emerging genre. What I consistently have to do when… Read More »Defining Femdom: Unique and Together
I do have a strong perspective of Femdom because I have lived, witnessed and felt it for a very long time. And, I am trying to get Femdom back on track. What I am essentially doing first is unpicking Femdom… Read More »Demanning Femdom
I get it that people want to escape into roleplaying Domina/sub. And that BDSM has been branded as just kinky sex acts that people do to spice up their sex life. It’s just all fun and games for them. But… Read More »Your Fantasy is My Reality: The Politics of Identity