Submission is a discipline, and real training starts with you. This category gives submissives the mindset, etiquette, and skills to serve with authenticity and purpose. Learn to present yourself, understand dynamics, and avoid common mistakes. Training for submission by RacyWilde💋
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. 💋 One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom
The distinction between Relative and Absolute Femdom is not simply one of intensity or experience. It is philosophical. It reflects two divergent understandings of what negotiation is for. In Relative dynamics, negotiation is a tool of co-authorship. It is the… Read More »A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation
In Absolute Femdom, the act of negotiation is not an invitation for the submissive to barter the Domina’s power. It is the preliminary phase in which She determines whether the submissive is ready to enter Her structured Femdom, not to… Read More »Submissives Negotiating with an Absolute Femdom
Within the discourse of Female Domination, negotiation is often assumed to be the ethical backbone that secures safety, transparency, and mutual understanding. And in many contexts, it is. But what is rarely examined—particularly within the Relative Femdom structure—is how certain… Read More »How Negotiation in Relative Femdom Limits the Domina’s Power: A Study in Denial, Disclosure, and Dynamic Integrity
Why Vanilla Negotiation Doesn’t Translate Well to Femdom Power Structures In the vanilla world, negotiation is a mutual dialogue intended to create balance for all parties involved. It is typically a process of collaborative compromise, where the parties bring their preferences,… Read More »Negotiation Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means
Dedicating my life to Femdom, I have studied domination in its most specific context—within D/s dynamics—and even more precisely, within female-led power structures. My passion for Femdom has driven me to examine it not just as a kink or identity,… Read More »Why Most Femdom Isn’t Actually Femdom
There are a lot of things men have projected onto Femdom—sissification being one of them. To be clear: sissification is not the same as feminisation. They are often confused, but fundamentally different. Feminisation is about crossdressing or presenting as a… Read More »Sissification Is Not What You Think It Is
Sensory Truths, Erotic Intelligence, and the Limits of Performance Truth is expressed through the body, and in Femdom it’s no different. There are things the body knows before the mind catches up. The tightening in the gut when someone takes… Read More »Femdom Embodiement
Power, Intimacy, and the Femdomsexual Heart If you’ve ever tried to explain to someone that your deepest experience of intimacy involves female-led hierarchy, control, or desire you’ll know the confusion it often provokes. The reality is, love, desire, and power… Read More »A Different Kind of Love
Why the Real Thing Feels Different There comes a point in most people’s exploration where they begin to notice the split between what they’ve fantasised about and what they actually want. The uncomfortable question is: how much of what you… Read More »Femdom vs. Fantasy