Submission is a discipline, and real training starts with you. This category gives submissives the mindset, etiquette, and skills to serve with authenticity and purpose. Learn to present yourself, understand dynamics, and avoid common mistakes. Training for submission by RacyWilde💋
Why the Real Thing Feels Different There comes a point in most people’s exploration where they begin to notice the split between what they’ve fantasised about and what they actually want. The uncomfortable question is: how much of what you… Read More »Femdom vs. Fantasy
Learning to Recognise What We’ve Always Felt When we talk about Female Power, most people assume we mean dominance. Control. Force. But for those of us drawn to Femdom — either as Dominant women or those who respond to them… Read More »The Orientation to Female Power
Reflections on Power, Identity, and Desire There’s something many people feel long before they have words for it. Their connection to Femdom runs deeper than a kink, deeper than a role, and certainly deeper than a scene. For some, it’s… Read More »Are You Femdomsexual?
Your surrender begins with deep self-knowledge Welcome to the Place Where You Discover What Your Submission IsBefore we talk about tasks, rituals, roles, and protocols, we must begin with the truth beneath them all—your desire to submit. Desiring to submit… Read More »Obey Yourself First – [How to Find Your Dream Domina]
Let me be clear: BDSM is not sex. It may involve sex, it may inspire sex, it may transform sex, but it is not defined by it. This is a crucial distinction, and one that most men entering the Femdom… Read More »BDSM Isn’t Sex—Femdom is a Power Structure, Not a Sexual Service
Let’s talk about the first message. That tiny cluster of words that, in your mind, might just be the beginning of something life-changing. Or in a Femdom’s mind… it’s yet another faceless ping in an endless sea of copy-paste desperation.… Read More »Why Performing Submission Before Consent Will Kill Your Chances
This is for the more advanced submissives, but good to know for others. If you’re a submissive who wants to serve powerfully—yes, powerfully—then you need to understand that some subs plateau in their submission. Why? Because they don’t have the… Read More »The Peter Principle for Submission
You’ve probably felt it for a long time now, haven’t you? That quiet ache you couldn’t name, the heat beneath your skin when you imagined what it might feel like, not to be just used, but to be seen. To… Read More »Are You submissive?