Mentorship
Private Study & Engagement
Mentorship with Racy Wilde
Working with me one-to-one is an invitation into serious, structured, and perspective-altering Femdom. It is for individuals—submissive men or emerging Dominas—who are prepared to unlearn, reflect, and reconstruct their relationship to female power, authority, and eroticism.
What I Offer
My private work is designed for those ready to:
– Unlearn pornified and male-centric narratives of submission or dominance
– Integrate philosophical and relational sovereignty into their erotic identity
– Understand the psychological architecture of devotion, authority, and feminine authorship
– Live Femdom not as a role, but as a truth
This work is rigorous. It is not therapy, but it is therapeutic. It is not training, but it is transformative. I will invite you to discover your true erotic self.
For Submissive Men
You may be here because the world of kink has failed to challenge you in the ways you secretly crave. You are tired of performing obedience. You want to be claimed by something real.
In our work together, you will:
– Be stripped of cliché
– Discover your submissive power
– Be restructured through discipline and meaning
For Women
Whether you are a new Domina or a woman wrestling with power, relational patterns, or internalised male-centric scripts, you are here to uncover your authentic Dominant self.
Our work may include:
– Rebuilding your understanding of erotic authorship
– Developing Female-centric desire as a primary principle
– Learning to design structures, not scene, for dynamics
I do not train women to perform dominance, but work with them to ignite their erotic agency and sovereignty.
Engagement Options
| Format | Duration | Description | Price |
|---|---|---|---|
| Initial Consultation | 30 min | Clarify your needs and assess alignment. Includes the development of a mentorship plan to prepare for the first deep engagement session. | €95 |
| Private Study Session | 90 min | Deep philosophical and relational engagement | €190 |
| 3-Session Series | 3 x 90 min | Structured inquiry with between-session reflection | €540 |
| Mentorship Path | 3–6 months | For long-form integration (by application only) | from €3,000 |
Each session is private, confidential, and tailored. You may be given readings, writing prompts, or ritual tasks depending on your path.
How to Apply
If you believe you’re ready to work with me, submit an email application. Tell me who you are, what you’re confronting, and why you believe this work is necessary for your erotic journey. Do not apply for my attention. Apply for your own education and guidance.
Payment Details
I use several third-party payment methods that keep both our identities private. I do not receive any private details unless you supply them. In places where they ask for names, this is used to identify who paid, but do not give me your real name if you don’t want to. The emails are for me to write you a message back to say I have received payment. And, the third-part takes care of payment details – I do not have access to them.