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In Femdom, and especially in Absolute Femdom, the woman’s desire becomes the structuring logic. Her preferences, needs, erotic language, and vision are not merely reactive to a man, but are primary and central to their interaction. The man’s desire may still exist—must still exist—but it is no longer steering. It is repositioned within a framework where his value is not reduced, but his authority is. And this feels like being a fish out of water for most men, even for submissives. The shift feels destabilising. This is Part 1 of a two-part series on The Conflict of Male Centric Desire in Femdom. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
The Conflict of Male Centric Desire in Femdom [Part 1] - The Mistress Code #podcast
This is for the men who would make good submissives, but they have just been introduced to fakers, which has made them cynical of Femdom. Here I talk about "Femdom pirates" and list some warning signs that you may be dealing with one of them. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Why You Can’t Find a Domina Who Actually Dominates - The Mistress Code #podcast
Here I dive deep into the process of negotiating with (or being initiated to) an Absolute Domina. Now... this is advanced stuff. This is not for beginners. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Keeping the Absolute Domina's Authority in Negotiation - The Mistress Code #podcast
This is a very crassly made video in response to Fisting video on Youtube by LoveHoney. The girls is funny and chirpie but... what she is saying and what she is not saying can cause harm to beginners. I am so super freaky about safety because, yes, I'm an extreme player. I have been for many years. I know my stuff. Of course, I haven't shared everything i know here - the main focus was for me to correct what the girl in the LoveHoney video was saying. I do plan to create a definitive Fisting video, ut I'm using this one to test what Youtube does...haha! Here is the reference video: https://youtu.be/poHQ0lhT-Es?si=oN6f8cuIRwtMi3Ke About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Fisting: A Femdom's Response to a Commercial Video - The Mistress Code
Consent Thresholding model is not just a clever inversion. It is an ethical advancement on mainstream BDSM dynamics. By placing the power structure up front—before acts, before preferences, before roles—the Domina is radically clarifying what is on offer. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Consent Thresholding in Absolute Femdom - The Mistress Code
We're almost at the end of the series: Femdom Negotiation. I'm really trying to ring home here that you can't use vanilla systems for a power exchange. They don't work properly and... it is unintuitive to try to make them. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
The Sequence of Negotiation is Reordered in Absolute Femdom - The Mistress Code #podcast
The Absolute Domina does not negotiate play. Such is not domination. Instead, She assesses the alignment of the sub to Her will. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Negotiation in Absolute Femdom: Vetting, Not Co Authoring - The Mistress Code #podcast
In the Femdom negotiation process, a lot of people tend to use preferences as an ultimatum - "if you don't do this, then I'm not submitting". This is fine for roleplayer structures, but in Absolute Femdom, it means the person is not an authentic submissive. Authentic submissives do not submit because their preferences are being met, but because they value the Domina and they want to submit to Her will, whatever that may be. This pod is part of the "A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation" chapter of Femdom Negotiation Series. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
Preference as Privilege - The Mistress Code #podcast
So, now we are getting into how Femdom negotiation differs from vanilla structures. In fact, when you get into Absolute Femdom, negotiation turns more into initiation. This is an ethical framework that accommodates the structure of power-dynamics. About: RacyWilde is an International Dominatrix and Lifestyle Domme. For many years, she has traveled, meeting amazing people from all over the world, enjoying some very kinky, fun and intimate play sessions. She is very experienced, an extreme player with advanced techniques, and strict about healthy play and BDSM safety protocol. She has a distinct Domination style and philosophy. She is a Classic-style Mistress with an elegant and intellectual perspective of BDSM. Please note: **Everyone's experience is unique; this is Mine. Podcast Website: https://mistresscode.com/
A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation - The Mistress Code #podcast
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