Everything you need to know to be Your kind of Mistress. This category guides you through authority, mindset, style, and structure. Drawn from real-life practice and feminist philosophy. Start with the basics or use as a refresher to sharpen your Femdom. Education by RacyWilde💋
One of the more persistent pop-psychology tropes of our time is the mantra that “all relationships are transactional.” It has spread in the manosphere, is promoted by dating coaches, creeps into sex therapy discussions, and repeats endlessly in self-help content.… Read More »Femdom and the Gift Economy
When beginners first approach Femdom, they often hear the word negotiation and assume it means bargaining: I give you this, you give me that. That is not what negotiation means in Femdom. At least not when done properly. Negotiation in… Read More »Negotiation Basics in Femdom: Consent, Limits, Boundaries, and Preferences
Many people assume that a submissive is just a submissive—that anyone who kneels or yields to another is the same. But in Femdom, the submissive has a different character. A Femdom submissive is not simply a person who follows orders.… Read More »What Is a Femdom submissive?
When people first step into the world of Female Domination, most will begin with what I call Relative Femdom. It is the most common entry point because it feels similar to vanilla egalitarian structures: negotiated, collaborative, and shaped around both… Read More »Relative Femdom: Training for Domination
For many beginners, the first exposure to Femdom comes through professional Dommes, usually via porn—clips, ads, or online profiles offering paid sessions. This is understandable. Professional domination is the most visible form of Female Domination on the internet, but this… Read More »Femdom vs. ProDomme: Why They’re Not the Same
At the most basic level, Femdom is not defined by activities, toys, or even rituals. It is defined by who the dynamic centres on. And this is what many beginners misunderstand, especially if they have come from porn. They assume… Read More »Why Female Desire Defines Femdom
One of the first mistakes beginners make is assuming that Female Domination is simply the mirror image of Male Domination. If men dominate by being forceful, strict, and rule-oriented, then women must do the same, only in high heels, right?… Read More »Male vs. Female Domination: Why Femdom Is Not Maledom in Reverse
The title will already make some people furious, not because the reasoning behind it is flawed, but they won’t read far enough to understand it. The loudest outrage often comes from those least familiar with the realities of advanced power… Read More »Don’t Negotiate with Beginners
This is going to contradict what BDSM says about Femdom: Femdom is not a role reversal of male domination; it is a subversion of it. This distinction cannot be overstated. Most BDSM practitioners would say Femdom is role reversal… and… Read More »Femdom is Subversion, Not Reversal
A recurring misconception among submissives entering Femdom—particularly Absolute Femdom—is the assumption that if their preferences align with a Domina’s stated interests, those desires will be enacted with them. They see the fetish list, the photos, the tags, and think: “Perfect… Read More »Submissive Preferences and Entitlement