While I am first and foremost a Lifestyle Femdom in my private life, I’ve decided it’s time to share more of what I know. After years of mentoring and advising locally, I now offer online mentorship, coaching, (and soon digital products) for those who want to learn directly from my experience. I’m in the process of writing several books on Femdom and power dynamics, with the first titles due for release around Christmas.
So what does mentorship mean in practice?
For some, it’s simply a conversation — orientation, reassurance, or perspective. For others, it might be guidance on how to present themselves, understand dynamics, or navigate the Scene and its protocols. I work with those who travel often, live remotely, or need discretion — people who can’t always access community directly but still want thoughtful and tailored guidance.
This is professional mentorship — not friendship, not play, and not a route to becoming my submissive. My role is closer to a coach in fitness or finance: I provide structure, clarity, and a grounded point of reference in a scene that can often be confusing or overwhelming. The difference is, of course, that my field is Femdom philosophy, practice, and education.
As a standard, I don’t chit-chat online, and I’ve been explicit about this for over ten years on my profile. Now that I’m developing the mentorship side of my work, people from around the world finally have the opportunity to take up my services — something I’ve never offered beyond the cities I’ve lived in until now. This means my time will be precious, and I devote it to my clients.
Locally and in-person, I’ve always mentored informally — coffees, cocktails, conversations at events — and many have told me that my guidance became a benchmark for them, a foundation they could measure their experiences against. That’s why I decided to formalise it a few years ago, and now offer it online for internationals.
With Me, you won’t find Findom manipulation or ProDomme theatrics. I have worked in corporate, tourism management, theatrical entertainment (creative, management and technician), and academia. You’ll get professionalism, boundaries, and a Domina who has lived this life across cultures and contexts, with a commitment to safe, sane, and consensual practice. I have strong ethics, an even stronger sense to protect, and a unadulterated passion for Femdom, qualities you will definitely sense in mentorship from Me.
Alongside mentorship, I’m developing digital products: essays and resources for Lifestyle Dommes and submissives alike. There are plenty of ProDomme memoirs and how-tos, but very little published on Lifestyle Femdom as philosophy and practice. That gap is what I’m working to fill.
I’ll still be writing, sharing, and interacting publicly. But as anyone who’s ever reached out to Me knows, I’m terrible with DMs — so I would be the worst person to chit-chat with on here anyway. Just know, those who still ask for chitchat, I will be referring them to my professional services.
Just know, I don’t mix business and pleasure. If you are a client, please use my professional contacts to reach out to me. If you want a personal connection, remember I am not attracted to everyone, just a small select few. I already have personal subs and playmates.