Submission is a discipline, and real training starts with you. This category gives submissives the mindset, etiquette, and skills to serve with authenticity and purpose. Learn to present yourself, understand dynamics, and avoid common mistakes. Training for submission by RacyWilde💋
For many beginners, the first exposure to Femdom comes through professional Dommes, usually via porn—clips, ads, or online profiles offering paid sessions. This is understandable. Professional domination is the most visible form of Female Domination on the internet, but this… Read More »Femdom vs. ProDomme: Why They’re Not the Same
The title will already make some people furious, not because the reasoning behind it is flawed, but they won’t read far enough to understand it. The loudest outrage often comes from those least familiar with the realities of advanced power… Read More »Don’t Negotiate with Beginners
Negotiation Ensures Agreement, Not Passion One of the least understood truths about Femdom is that negotiation, while essential for safety, is also a form of control. When a submissive says to a Domina, “I will only submit if you meet… Read More »The Price of Negotiation: How Contracts Steal Passion
A recurring misconception among submissives entering Femdom—particularly Absolute Femdom—is the assumption that if their preferences align with a Domina’s stated interests, those desires will be enacted with them. They see the fetish list, the photos, the tags, and think: “Perfect… Read More »Submissive Preferences and Entitlement
A lot of people are chronically confused about what Domination is. Without thinking, they simply repeat what they’ve heard others say, without noticing that those people are themselves repeating what they have heard, also without thinking. This is the ouroboros… Read More »Two-Step Authentication for Femdom Dynamics
This is an opinion piece, which means I am making judgments from a lifetime of experience being a Dominant woman, my connections with over two thousand men who have submitted to me over the years, and interactions with hundreds of… Read More »The Battle of Modern Men to Surrender
One of the most common misinterpretations of Absolute Femdom is that it “ignores” the submissive’s desires. This is not true. Absolute Femdom values male desire deeply, just not in the way most men are taught to expect. It does not… Read More »Male Desire as Submission, Not Control
Male Desire in a Time of Gender Tension We are living through a cultural moment where gender dynamics are being publicly reexamined and renegotiated. In the wake of #MeToo, rising feminist awareness, and broader critiques of patriarchy, many men—particularly those… Read More »The Conflict of Male-Centric Desire in Femdom
One of the most common frustrations I hear from submissive men is the difficulty of finding a Dominant woman who actually dominates. Not just someone who performs erotic acts from Femdom porn, but a woman who leads a power-based, female-authored… Read More »Why You Can’t Find a Domina Who Actually Dominates
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. 💋 One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom