Articles exploring the philosophical, relational, and psychological foundations of Femdom dynamics—for women claiming authority and men learning to submit beyond the cliché.
One of the most common mistakes men make when they first approach Femdom is treating the Domina like a kink dispenser. They come with a list—pegging, trampling, foot worship, humiliation—and expect Her to deliver the menu. In his mind, this… Read More »The Domina Is Not a Kink Dispenser
For many men entering the scene, they often approach Domination as a kind of trade. They think that if they offer their body, their submission, or their fetish, the Domina will respond by providing domination. In the male mind, this… Read More »Get Out of the Transactional Play Mindset
For many beginners, the first exposure to Femdom comes through professional Dommes, usually via porn—clips, ads, or online profiles offering paid sessions. This is understandable. Professional domination is the most visible form of Female Domination on the internet, but this… Read More »Femdom vs. ProDomme: Why They’re Not the Same
At the most basic level, Femdom is not defined by activities, toys, or even rituals. It is defined by who the dynamic centres on. And this is what many beginners misunderstand, especially if they have come from porn. They assume… Read More »Why Female Desire Defines Femdom
One of the first mistakes beginners make is assuming that Female Domination is simply the mirror image of Male Domination. If men dominate by being forceful, strict, and rule-oriented, then women must do the same, only in high heels, right?… Read More »Male vs. Female Domination: Why Femdom Is Not Maledom in Reverse
The title will already make some people furious, not because the reasoning behind it is flawed, but they won’t read far enough to understand it. The loudest outrage often comes from those least familiar with the realities of advanced power… Read More »Don’t Negotiate with Beginners
Negotiation Ensures Agreement, Not Passion One of the least understood truths about Femdom is that negotiation, while essential for safety, is also a form of control. When a submissive says to a Domina, “I will only submit if you meet… Read More »The Price of Negotiation: How Contracts Steal Passion
This is going to contradict what BDSM says about Femdom: Femdom is not a role reversal of male domination; it is a subversion of it. This distinction cannot be overstated. Most BDSM practitioners would say Femdom is role reversal… and… Read More »Femdom is Subversion, Not Reversal
A recurring misconception among submissives entering Femdom—particularly Absolute Femdom—is the assumption that if their preferences align with a Domina’s stated interests, those desires will be enacted with them. They see the fetish list, the photos, the tags, and think: “Perfect… Read More »Submissive Preferences and Entitlement
A lot of people are chronically confused about what Domination is. Without thinking, they simply repeat what they’ve heard others say, without noticing that those people are themselves repeating what they have heard, also without thinking. This is the ouroboros… Read More »Two-Step Authentication for Femdom Dynamics