Articles exploring the philosophical, relational, and psychological foundations of Femdom dynamics—for women claiming authority and men learning to submit beyond the cliché.
The figure of the Dominant Woman, as imagined by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch (1870), was not discovered or encountered, but constructed. Sacher-Masoch is known to be the first “out of the closet” masochist, and he had quite a controversial life, especially… Read More »Plagiarising Femdom
This is an opinion piece, which means I am making judgments from a lifetime of experience being a Dominant woman, my connections with over two thousand men who have submitted to me over the years, and interactions with hundreds of… Read More »The Battle of Modern Men to Surrender
One of the most common misinterpretations of Absolute Femdom is that it “ignores” the submissive’s desires. This is not true. Absolute Femdom values male desire deeply, just not in the way most men are taught to expect. It does not… Read More »Male Desire as Submission, Not Control
Male Desire in a Time of Gender Tension We are living through a cultural moment where gender dynamics are being publicly reexamined and renegotiated. In the wake of #MeToo, rising feminist awareness, and broader critiques of patriarchy, many men—particularly those… Read More »The Conflict of Male-Centric Desire in Femdom
One of the most common frustrations I hear from submissive men is the difficulty of finding a Dominant woman who actually dominates. Not just someone who performs erotic acts from Femdom porn, but a woman who leads a power-based, female-authored… Read More »Why You Can’t Find a Domina Who Actually Dominates
In Absolute Femdom, the Domina is not a service provider. She is not offering a menu of experiences for the submissive to purchase with consent. She is not there to perform dominance as a commodity. And so, negotiation must be… Read More »Keeping the Absolute Domina’s Authority in Negotiation
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. 💋 One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom
The distinction between Relative and Absolute Femdom is not simply one of intensity or experience. It is philosophical. It reflects two divergent understandings of what negotiation is for. In Relative dynamics, negotiation is a tool of co-authorship. It is the… Read More »A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation
In popular discourse—particularly in the realms of dating advice, self-help psychology, and social media coaching—women are routinely told to “get in their feminine” or “drop out of their masculine.” These phrases may sound empowering, but they are contrived. They are… Read More »The Dominant Feminine vs. Pop-Culture Polarity: “feminine energy”
In Absolute Femdom, the act of negotiation is not an invitation for the submissive to barter the Domina’s power. It is the preliminary phase in which She determines whether the submissive is ready to enter Her structured Femdom, not to… Read More »Submissives Negotiating with an Absolute Femdom