Articles exploring the philosophical, relational, and psychological foundations of Femdom dynamics—for women claiming authority and men learning to submit beyond the cliché.
Reflections on Power, Identity, and Desire There’s something many people feel long before they have words for it. Their connection to Femdom runs deeper than a kink, deeper than a role, and certainly deeper than a scene. For some, it’s… Read More »Are You Femdomsexual?
Your surrender begins with deep self-knowledge Welcome to the Place Where You Discover What Your Submission IsBefore we talk about tasks, rituals, roles, and protocols, we must begin with the truth beneath them all—your desire to submit. Desiring to submit… Read More »Obey Yourself First – [How to Find Your Dream Domina]
Let me be clear: BDSM is not sex. It may involve sex, it may inspire sex, it may transform sex, but it is not defined by it. This is a crucial distinction, and one that most men entering the Femdom… Read More »BDSM Isn’t Sex—Femdom is a Power Structure, Not a Sexual Service
Let’s talk about the first message. That tiny cluster of words that, in your mind, might just be the beginning of something life-changing. Or in a Femdom’s mind… it’s yet another faceless ping in an endless sea of copy-paste desperation.… Read More »Why Performing Submission Before Consent Will Kill Your Chances
So, I study Femdom… academically. For the Arts, not Sciences (so don’t worry, I don’t data people.) I look at narratives and identify patterns, trace lineages and track deviations to identify emerging genre. What I consistently have to do when… Read More »Defining Femdom: Unique and Together
I do have a strong perspective of Femdom because I have lived, witnessed and felt it for a very long time. And, I am trying to get Femdom back on track. What I am essentially doing first is unpicking Femdom… Read More »Demanning Femdom
I get it that people want to escape into roleplaying Domina/sub. And that BDSM has been branded as just kinky sex acts that people do to spice up their sex life. It’s just all fun and games for them. But… Read More »Your Fantasy is My Reality: The Politics of Identity
Everyone has their own definitions of what BDSM is. This can make it very confusing to undertsand. I’ve been in this lifestyle for years, not as a trend-chaser, but as a woman who has studied, practiced, and lived the power… Read More »What is BDSM, Really?
If you want your submissive to serve powerfully, then you need to understand the real reason some subs plateau. It’s a failure to grow. In 1969, Dr. Laurence J. Peter and Raymond Hull published a corporate theory known as The Peter… Read More »The Domina Correction for The Peter Principle
This is for the more advanced submissives, but good to know for others. If you’re a submissive who wants to serve powerfully—yes, powerfully—then you need to understand that some subs plateau in their submission. Why? Because they don’t have the… Read More »The Peter Principle for Submission