Submission is a discipline, and real training starts with you. This category gives submissives the mindset, etiquette, and skills to serve with authenticity and purpose. Learn to present yourself, understand dynamics, and avoid common mistakes. Training for submission by RacyWilde💋
When men begin exploring Femdom, one of the first questions they often ask themselves is: Am I really submissive, or am I just choosing this? The answer is not as simple as many think. Submission can be felt as an… Read More »Born submissive vs. Choice submissive
Not all submissives serve in the same way. Submission is not one-size-fits-all. Some men thrive on being of service. Others thrive on being in a relationship. Both are valid, but the difference between them matters deeply—especially to a Domina. Service… Read More »Service Submissives vs. Relational Submissives
One of the most common sources of confusion in Femdom is the difference between a fetishist and a submissive. Many beginners assume they are the same. After all, both want a woman to do things to them, right? But the… Read More »Fetishists vs. Submissives – What Are You?
Many men feel the pull toward submission but don’t know if they are truly ready to serve a Domina. Desire alone is not enough. A Femdom submissive is not measured by how much he wants to submit, but by how… Read More »Are Ready to Submit to a Domina?
Many people assume that a submissive is just a submissive—that anyone who kneels or yields to another is the same. But in Femdom, the submissive has a different character. A Femdom submissive is not simply a person who follows orders.… Read More »What Is a Femdom submissive?
One of the most common mistakes men make when they first approach Femdom is treating the Domina like a kink dispenser. They come with a list—pegging, trampling, foot worship, humiliation—and expect Her to deliver the menu. In his mind, this… Read More »The Domina Is Not a Kink Dispenser
For many men entering the scene, they often approach Domination as a kind of trade. They think that if they offer their body, their submission, or their fetish, the Domina will respond by providing domination. In the male mind, this… Read More »Get Out of the Transactional Play Mindset
For many beginners, the first exposure to Femdom comes through professional Dommes, usually via porn—clips, ads, or online profiles offering paid sessions. This is understandable. Professional domination is the most visible form of Female Domination on the internet, but this… Read More »Femdom vs. ProDomme: Why They’re Not the Same
The title will already make some people furious, not because the reasoning behind it is flawed, but they won’t read far enough to understand it. The loudest outrage often comes from those least familiar with the realities of advanced power… Read More »Don’t Negotiate with Beginners
Negotiation Ensures Agreement, Not Passion One of the least understood truths about Femdom is that negotiation, while essential for safety, is also a form of control. When a submissive says to a Domina, “I will only submit if you meet… Read More »The Price of Negotiation: How Contracts Steal Passion