Submission is a discipline, and real training starts with you. This category gives submissives the mindset, etiquette, and skills to serve with authenticity and purpose. Learn to present yourself, understand dynamics, and avoid common mistakes. Training for submission by RacyWilde💋
A recurring misconception among submissives entering Femdom—particularly Absolute Femdom—is the assumption that if their preferences align with a Domina’s stated interests, those desires will be enacted with them. They see the fetish list, the photos, the tags, and think: “Perfect… Read More »Submissive Preferences and Entitlement
A lot of people are chronically confused about what Domination is. Without thinking, they simply repeat what they’ve heard others say, without noticing that those people are themselves repeating what they have heard, also without thinking. This is the ouroboros… Read More »Two-Step Authentication for Femdom Dynamics
This is an opinion piece, which means I am making judgments from a lifetime of experience being a Dominant woman, my connections with over two thousand men who have submitted to me over the years, and interactions with hundreds of… Read More »The Battle of Modern Men to Surrender
One of the most common misinterpretations of Absolute Femdom is that it “ignores” the submissive’s desires. This is not true. Absolute Femdom values male desire deeply, just not in the way most men are taught to expect. It does not… Read More »Male Desire as Submission, Not Control
Male Desire in a Time of Gender Tension We are living through a cultural moment where gender dynamics are being publicly reexamined and renegotiated. In the wake of #MeToo, rising feminist awareness, and broader critiques of patriarchy, many men—particularly those… Read More »The Conflict of Male-Centric Desire in Femdom
One of the most common frustrations I hear from submissive men is the difficulty of finding a Dominant woman who actually dominates. Not just someone who performs erotic acts from Femdom porn, but a woman who leads a power-based, female-authored… Read More »Why You Can’t Find a Domina Who Actually Dominates
I am well aware that this just undoes all the negotiation discussion – haha! But I took you on a journey. 💋 One of the main reasons people struggle to comprehend negotiation in Absolute Femdom is because they are trying… Read More »“Consent Thresholding” in Absolute Femdom
The distinction between Relative and Absolute Femdom is not simply one of intensity or experience. It is philosophical. It reflects two divergent understandings of what negotiation is for. In Relative dynamics, negotiation is a tool of co-authorship. It is the… Read More »A Deeper Dive Into Absolute Femdom Negotiation
In popular discourse—particularly in the realms of dating advice, self-help psychology, and social media coaching—women are routinely told to “get in their feminine” or “drop out of their masculine.” These phrases may sound empowering, but they are contrived. They are… Read More »The Dominant Feminine vs. Pop-Culture Polarity: “feminine energy”
In Absolute Femdom, the act of negotiation is not an invitation for the submissive to barter the Domina’s power. It is the preliminary phase in which She determines whether the submissive is ready to enter Her structured Femdom, not to… Read More »Submissives Negotiating with an Absolute Femdom